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All females loved being playful as children, and most all of them love being playful as adults even more. With this in mind, being playful with a woman you just met is a fun way to flirt and get her interested in you.

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The ultimate fantasy for many guys is that we all lived in a world where it was the woman who was expected to approach the guy in social situations. These guys imagine that transferring the “burden” of making the first move and risking rejection onto women would be the best thing that ever happened to them.

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While riding the train home from work today, I got to witness another case of a guy who had enough game to start a conversation with a hot, sexy woman, but not enough to close the deal and get her email or phone number.

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Listening to my favorite morning Chicago radio jock, Steve Dahl, a couple days ago, I heard him joking about some online dating sites that featured people whining, complaining, and venting about their failed relationships in order to get some kind of closure.    

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When people are tackling the laborious task of writing their online dating profile, they are painfully torn between the moral responsibility of telling the truth, and the overwhelming desire to present themselves in the most favorable light possible. The end result is usually a narrative that straddles these two goals in a way that gives the reader sort of a skewered view of reality.

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Because they seem to have no other relationship options, a countless number of guys will stay with a woman no matter how badly she treats him. 

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No matter whether you are very happily married, like I am, or just going out on your first date, you can be sure of one thing. The woman you are with is going to test you.

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When my wife and I recently attended a Santana concert here in the Chicago area, I found myself casually observing a couple that was standing in front of us (nobody at a Santana concert usually sits very much).

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Knowing body language does have some benefits, but I have to laugh when I hear certain “relationship experts” who tell you how to use body language to “appear” more confident.

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My main preaching point to guys is to NOT approach a woman with the mindset of SEEKING HER APPROVAL. When you do this, you in essence give away all your power to the woman, putting her in control of not only the initial encounter, but of all your other interactions in the future. Even if you end up dating her, or entering into a long term relationship, its very difficult to change this dynamic once it has been set in motion.

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Discovering the perfect pick-up line has been the life-long quest of would-be Players and Pick-up artists for as long as finding the Holy Grail has been the quest of would-be treasure hunters.

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