All females loved being playful as children, and most all of them love being playful as adults even more. With this in mind, being playful with a woman you just met is a fun way to flirt and get her interested in you.

 

Most of the boring, predictable guys out there mistakenly attempt to seek a woman’s approval by either giving her a bunch of compliments she’s heard a hundred times before or by agreeing with every word out of her mouth.

 

You will get a much better response if you instead flirt with a woman by playfully challenging her on some opinion she expresses or by teasing her a bit about something she may be doing, or even wearing. 

 

Most women love this type of playful interaction and will quickly pick up on what you’re doing and play right along. The objective is to not just have fun yourself, but to create a fun experience for the woman as well. You want to get her laughing and even giving you a playful punch in the arm and calling you a bad boy for some little risque comment you made.

 

In contrast, nobody loves it when somebody they are dating, or trying to date, is playing games with them. By playing games I mean someone who seems to be toying with your emotions and making you feel manipulated and used. Not really what you’re looking for when you enter into a relationship.

 

When someone leads you on with promises they never intend to keep, or stands you up for dates, it really starts messing with your sense of self worth and self respect.

 

This is something that no one ever wants to happen to themselves, which makes it a doubley mean and evil thing to do to someone else. Normally the people who behave in this manner have a poor self image and can only feel good about themselves when they manipulate and hurt others.

 

Being playful can be fun and uplifting for everyone. But playing games with someone’s feelings isn’t fun or positive for anyone involved.  

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