Most guys when they first meet a woman, or even after a few encounters, are very tentative and uncomfortable bringing up anything that could be even remotely considered sexual in nature. Unfortunately, by avoiding this subject and trying to keep the conversation safe and platonic, these guys find that the woman has automatically placed him in her “just friends” category. Once you are locked into that category, it is very difficult to escape.

 

Using sexual innuendo and humor with a woman, especially one you just met, is a great way to generate sexual energy, which leads in turn to creating attraction in a woman. However, this activity is fraught with danger if you don’t do it right.

 

The key is to keep things light, fun and non-threatening. Subtly and humor is critical in catching the right tone and not crossing that line between being playful with a woman and creeping her out. Being too graphic or mentioning particular body parts can instantly turn a fun exchange into an uncomfortable interaction that will quickly have the woman running for the exits.

 

Now every woman is different, and what works with one woman may fall completely flat with another. You need to observe and listen for signals that a particular woman is open to receiving your approach. Wade in slowly with something less provocative and see what reaction you get. If the woman receives it positively, that should be a green light to get a little edgier.

 

A woman will definitely let you know if you cross some forbidden line with her. If this happens, don’t freak out or feel like you failed or blew it. On the contrary, you just learned something valuable about where this woman’s borders are, at least at this stage off your interaction. Take it down a notch and move foward.

 

If a woman seems overly sensitive to any sort of light sexual playfulness or teasing from you, then you may want to think about moving on. Either she is uptight about the subject, she has absolutely ZERO interest in you sexually, or you are simply doing something wrong in your approach.

 

It is more likely this last case if you keep getting the same negative reaction from every girl you try this on. In that case you may want to discuss your approach with some female friends or aquaintances and see what reaction they have.

 

Creating sexual tension is the one thing that can seperate you from the rest of the boring guys a woman is approached by all the time. Not only will you start creating instant attraction, but instead of just having a bunch of girl “friends, you will end up with a lot more girlfriends, and a lot more dates. 

 

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