No matter whether you’re very happily married like I am, or just going out on your first date, you can be sure of one thing. The woman you are with is going to test you.

 

By test, I mean she is going to say things or do things that will push your buttons to determine what you will let her get away with and if you are man enough to handle her moods.

 

And when I say test, I don’t mean just once or twice. Noooooo!!! You are going to be tested over and over and over again, no matter how many times you have passed.

 

If you have a cat, then you already know how it works. A cat will keep doing the same thing over and over, no matter how many times you stop it, just waiting for the day they wear you out and you just give in. The difference is that the cat wants you to give in while the woman doesn’t.

 

The main reason she is testing you is to make sure you are still onboard in the relationship, still paying attention to her, and especially still making sure her man is staying strong and standing up for himself.

 

The last thing she wants is the ability to turn her once strong man into a wussie guy. No matter how many arguments you have, you will have a much better chance of keeping your woman happy, then if you start giving into her and lose your backbone and her respect. Once that happens, it’s the beginning of the end, and you will begin to see a definite a change in the way your woman starts treating you.

 

So, how do you pass these tests without being in a constant battle? 

 

Very simple. Make sure that you don’t tolerate her speaking to you in a demeaning or dis-respectful manner or tone of voice. If she does, you need to call her on it, and let her know that this type of tone is not acceptable. Of course, you should treat her in the same respectful way.

 

There is no need to yell. If she begins behaving badly, you need to confront her and, in a calm tone of voice, let her know you are not going to put up with this type of behavior. 

 

Basically, if you don’t respect yourself enough to stand up for yourself, your woman will end up losing respect for you too. And that’s not good for either of you. 

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