No matter whether you’re very happily married like I am, or just going out on your first date, you can be sure of one thing. The woman you are with is going to test you.

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When my wife and I recently attended a Santana concert here in the Chicago area, I found myself casually observing a couple that was standing in front of us (nobody at a Santana concert usually sits very much).

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Knowing body language does have some benefits, but I have to laugh when I hear certain “relationship experts” who tell you how to use body language to “appear” more confident.

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My main preaching point to guys is to NOT approach a woman with the mindset of SEEKING HER APPROVAL. When you do this, you in essence give away all your power to the woman, putting her in control of not only the initial encounter, but of all your other interactions in the future. Even if you end up dating her, or entering into a long term relationship, its very difficult to change this dynamic once it has been set in motion.

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Discovering the perfect pick-up line has been the life-long quest of would-be Players and Pick-up artists for as long as finding the Holy Grail has been the quest of would-be treasure hunters.

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After a long, stressful day or week at work, do you think a woman would rather spend her valuable free time with some guy who constantly engages her in serious mundane conversations, or with a fun upbeat guy who gets her laughing so much that after a couple minutes she totally forgets her troubles.

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When responding to a woman’s online profile, many guys seem completely unaware of one very important factor. 

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I think if you could ask any woman in the world they would tell you that they want a  guy who is nice to them. So why does it seem that when it comes to approaching and dating women nice guys finish last?

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Preparing to go on a first date with someone you REALLY like is one of the most those supercharged moments you will ever experience in your life.

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A big question I get from guys is what to talk about on a first date. Or what questions to ask on a first date.

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When most guys think about meeting women, the first places that come to mind are bars and dance clubs. But are these really the best environments to make your move?

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