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	<title>Alphadater Dating Coach</title>
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	<link>http://www.alphadater.com</link>
	<description>Dating Coach David Curtis offers dating advice for men and women. Learn how to approach women anywhere, what women want, how to flirt,online dating strategies, first date tips, romantic, sexual secrets, how to be a player, how to get your lover back, and other relationship help</description>
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		<title>What Are Men Thinking? Part 1</title>
		<link>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-women/what-are-men-thinking-part-1</link>
		<comments>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-women/what-are-men-thinking-part-1#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 12:02:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Curtis</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating Advice for Women]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[You meet a guy at some social event. You have a great conversation, he appears very interested in you, and you seem to have some chemistry going on. When its time to leave you exchange cell numbers and he says he&#8217;ll call you. Then you head home feeling confident that you will be hearing from him [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Getting Guys to Commit</title>
		<link>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-women/getting-guys-to-commit</link>
		<comments>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-women/getting-guys-to-commit#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 23:33:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Curtis</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating Advice for Women]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I recently received this email question.
 
David,
 
Regarding the C word, I haven&#8217;t met anyone too interested in talking about it.  Commitment is a dirty word in the world of 50-something daters (from my experience).  And I&#8217;m not talking about life-long or marriage.  I&#8217;m talking about &#8220;do you want to go on another date&#8221; commitment! I tend to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Alpha Female Dating Approach</title>
		<link>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-women/alpha-female-dating-approach</link>
		<comments>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-women/alpha-female-dating-approach#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Aug 2009 16:40:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Curtis</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating Advice for Women]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Mention a highly charged term like alpha female and a thousand different  meanings pop into people&#8217;s mind. Everything from the aggressive, ambitious, corporate female executive to &#8220;Fatal Attraction&#8221;.
 
So let me be clear. I&#8217;m not talking about Thelma and Louise here. I&#8217;m just talking about a woman who doesn&#8217;t sit passively by waiting for Mr Right [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Who Controls Your Relationship?</title>
		<link>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-women/who-controls-your-relationship</link>
		<comments>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-women/who-controls-your-relationship#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 21:38:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Curtis</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating Advice for Women]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[clingy guys]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control of emotions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control the relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotionally out of control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[head out of the clouds]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[in lust]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[madly in love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[needs and wants]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[new relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[start of relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[submissive weenie]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[whirlwind romance]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Let me start by saying that even though each of my individual articles is directed to one sex or the other, in this case to women, I am always aware of my responsibility to be an equal arbitrator to both.

 
That said, no matter what sex you are, and especially if you are my client, I&#8217;m [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Should Women Call Men First?</title>
		<link>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-women/should-women-call-the-guy-first</link>
		<comments>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-women/should-women-call-the-guy-first#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Aug 2009 18:18:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Curtis</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating Advice for Women]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[david curtis]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[online dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[online dating rules]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship coach]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[woman's phone number]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[women call men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[women calling men]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.alphadater.com/?p=582</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Online dating and social networking sites appear to be behind recent changes in the dating dynamic. Because it’s more socially acceptable for women to make the first move and initiate contact in the online world, it appears men are starting to expect the same behavior from women in the real world.

 
Though I do encourage women [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Create Sexual Tension Without Creeping Her Out</title>
		<link>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/create-sexual-tension-without-creeping-her-out</link>
		<comments>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/create-sexual-tension-without-creeping-her-out#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 00:03:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Curtis</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating Advice for Men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alphadater]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[being playful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[creating instant attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[forbidden line]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[just friends]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[light sexual playfulness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[platonic]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexual energy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexual in nature]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexual innuendo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[uncomfortable interaction]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.alphadater.com/?p=72</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Most guys when they first meet a woman, or even after a few encounters, are very tentative and uncomfortable bringing up anything that could be even remotely considered sexual in nature. Unfortunately, by avoiding this subject and trying to keep the conversation safe and platonic, these guys find that the woman has automatically placed him in [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Be Playful with Women Instead of Playing Games</title>
		<link>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/be-playful-with-women-instead-of-playing-games</link>
		<comments>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/be-playful-with-women-instead-of-playing-games#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 23:45:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Curtis</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating Advice for Men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alphadater]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[david curtis]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[don't play games]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[manipulate emotions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[playful interaction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[playfully challenging]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[playing games with women]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[poor self image]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[seek women’s approval]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[teasing her]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.alphadater.com/?p=71</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[All females loved being playful as children, and most all of them love being playful as adults even more. With this in mind, being playful with a woman you just met is a fun way to flirt and get her interested in you.

 
Most of the boring, predictable guys out there mistakenly attempt to seek a woman’s approval by either giving her a bunch of compliments [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Women Approaching Me and Why It&#8217;s Not Good For Men</title>
		<link>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/women-approaching-men-and-why-its-not-good-for-men</link>
		<comments>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/women-approaching-men-and-why-its-not-good-for-men#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2009 19:28:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Curtis</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating Advice for Men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alphadater]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[beaten down egos]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how attraction works]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[making first move]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[risking rejection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[social options]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[social stigma]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[women approaching men]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.alphadater.com/?p=70</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The ultimate fantasy for many guys is that we all lived in a world where it was the woman who was expected to approach the guy in social situations. These guys imagine that transferring the &#8220;burden&#8221; of making the first move and risking rejection onto women would be the best thing that ever happened to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Approaching Hot Women</title>
		<link>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/approaching-hot-women</link>
		<comments>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/approaching-hot-women#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jul 2008 01:11:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Curtis</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating Advice for Men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alphadater]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[approach anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conversation starters]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[creating attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fear of approaching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[giving compliments]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Meeting Women]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[nice guy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pick-up lines]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pick-up technique]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[smartass]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[smartass approach]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[starting conversations]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.alphadater.com/?p=38</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[While riding the train home from work today, I got to witness another case of a guy who had enough game to start a conversation with a hot, sexy woman, but not enough to close the deal and get her email or phone number.

 
I have to start out by saying that this woman was Runway Model stunning, meaning [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Getting Over a Breakup</title>
		<link>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/dating-advice-getting-over-a-breakup</link>
		<comments>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/dating-advice-getting-over-a-breakup#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 02:01:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Curtis</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating Advice for Men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alphadater]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad breakup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating options]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ex lover]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[failed relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[former girlfriends]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[getting closure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[getting over a breakup]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[online dating sites]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[past resentments]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[personality conflicts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[questionable behavior]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.alphadater.com/?p=37</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Listening to my favorite morning Chicago radio jock, Steve Dahl, a couple days ago, I heard him joking about some online dating sites that featured people whining, complaining, and venting about their failed relationships in order to get some kind of closure.    

 
He mostly was criticizing the guys  for sounding woosie and acting like &#8220;girly-men&#8221; in complaining about how much they thought [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Online Dating Profile-What You Say and What Women Hear</title>
		<link>http://www.alphadater.com/online-dating-tips/online-dating-profile-what-you-say-and-what-women-hear</link>
		<comments>http://www.alphadater.com/online-dating-tips/online-dating-profile-what-you-say-and-what-women-hear#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 15:11:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Curtis</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[onlne dating tips]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alphadater]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[committed relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating experiences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[guy friends]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[inner circle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[life-long partner]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[male profiles]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[moral responsibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[online dating profile]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[overwhelming desire]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[popular dating website]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[settle down]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.alphadater.com/?p=34</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When people are tackling the laborious task of writing their online dating profile, they are painfully torn between the moral responsibility of telling the truth, and the overwhelming desire to present themselves in the most favorable light possible. The end result is usually a narrative that straddles these two goals in a way that gives [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dating Women-Walk Away From Bad Behavior</title>
		<link>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/dating-women-learn-how-to-walk-away</link>
		<comments>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/dating-women-learn-how-to-walk-away#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 17:38:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Curtis</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating Advice for Men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[acting needy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alphadater]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[broken relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating women]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[david curtis]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disrespectful behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[first date]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[negative behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[respect yourself]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-confident guy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[selfish women]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.alphadater.com/?p=29</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Because they seem to have no other relationship options, a countless number of guys will stay with a woman no matter how badly she treats him. 

 
She can blow off dates, talk down to him, make outrageous demands, and basically treat him like crap, and because the guy doesn&#8217;t think he can get another girl, he will just [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why Women Test Guys and How to Pass</title>
		<link>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/why-women-test-guys-and-how-to-pass</link>
		<comments>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/why-women-test-guys-and-how-to-pass#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 01:24:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Curtis</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating Advice for Men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alphadater]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[losing respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[paying attention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pushing your buttons]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[respect yourself]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tone of voice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[why women test guys]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[women's moods]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.alphadater.com/?p=26</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[No matter whether you&#8217;re very happily married like I am, or just going out on your first date, you can be sure of one thing. The woman you are with is going to test you.

 
By test, I mean she is going to say things or do things that will push your buttons to determine what [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dating Women-Knowing When to Get Physical</title>
		<link>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/dating-women-knowing-when-to-take-things-physical</link>
		<comments>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/dating-women-knowing-when-to-take-things-physical#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 19:36:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Curtis</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating Advice for Men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alphadater]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[chicago area]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dating women]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[flirtatiously bumping]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[flirting signals]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gentleman]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[know when to get physical]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[overtly sexual]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[physical interaction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[playful punch]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[public displays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexual innuendo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexy figure]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[When my wife and I recently attended a Santana concert here in the Chicago area, I found myself casually observing a couple that was standing in front of us (nobody at a Santana concert usually sits very much).

 
The woman, probably in her mid-20&#8217;s, was very attractive and had a really cute, sexy figure. The guy, on [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Body Language Myths When Approaching Women</title>
		<link>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/body-language-myths-when-approaching-women</link>
		<comments>http://www.alphadater.com/dating-advice-for-men/body-language-myths-when-approaching-women#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Mar 2008 23:42:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Curtis</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating Advice for Men]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[bundle of nerves]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[david curtis]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[insecurity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mirroring]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[NLP]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self confidence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sense insecurity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[silent communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[unconscious level]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Knowing body language does have some benefits, but I have to laugh when I hear certain &#8220;relationship experts&#8221; who tell you how to use body language to &#8220;appear&#8221; more confident.

  
Fact: Your body language is a direct reflection of what is going on inside you. Even if you are an expert in body language, if inside you are a bundle [...]]]></description>
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