Discovering the perfect pick-up line has been the life-long quest of would-be Players and Pick-up artists for as long as finding the Holy Grail has been the quest of would-be treasure hunters.

  

Unfortunately, at least up until now, the quest for both has been in vain. But despite the failure of each group, the search continues and probably will for as long as the myth of each of these elusive treasures continues to stir the imagination of those who seek them.

  

Now I have no idea where the Holy Grail is, or even IF it is, but I do believe I can shed some light on where the perfect pick-up line resides. Simply put, IT RESIDES IN THE MOMENT.

  

In other words, there isn’t one “perfect pick-up line” that will work with every woman, in every setting, under any circumstances, at any one moment in time.

  

Every woman is different, every setting and circumstance is different, and every moment in time is different from every other moment that comes before and after it.

  

The perfect pick-up line is not just laying around waiting for someone to find it. It remains hidden, and only reveals itself at the exact moment in which its perfect nature exists. To have the perfect pick-up line reveal itself to you, you must tap your powers of observation to determine when its exact moment has arrived. And when that moment arrives, you must immediately act or the moment is gone, and so is your opportunity.

  

If you see a woman in a bar, you may have a 3-hour window to wait for that moment. If you see a woman while you’re walking down the street, you may have a 3-second window. It obviously takes a more skilled practitioner to discover the perfect pick-up line in the latter scenario.

  

Though the timeframe for action may differ, the process of discovery remains the same. When you come across a woman who interests you, you need to not only consider her, but also become aware of the setting and circumstances which you both are currently sharing.

  

Then all you need to do is observe this particular woman, in this particular setting, under these particular circumstances, and wait for the exact MOMENT when something big or small happens to change or disrupt the status quo of one of these three elements. I call this the “moment of convergence”. For this to be effective, the woman must either be directly involved in this change or disruption, or be a witness to it.

  

Based on what change or disruption occurs, some inspired comment or observation should suddenly pop into your brain that, when spoken to her will instantly trigger a chemical reaction inside of her that subtly creates a spark of attraction towards you.

  

Whatever this comment is which triggers that attraction in her at this “moment of convergence” is your PERFECT PICK-UP LINE.

  

If the moment comes when that perfect pick-up line enters your brain, and you fail to act at that exact moment, then that particular pick-up line loses most, if not all its power and is now virtually useless to you. If you try to use it anytime after the moment has passed, it will most likely fall completely flat, or at least have only a fraction of the power it would have had at the “moment of convergence”.

  

Every guy has had at least a few of these “moments of convergence” in his lifetime when a small occurrence happened involving a woman he was highly attracted to. For some reason this occurrence instantly triggered the perfect pick-up line to pop into his head. But instead of approaching the woman and using the line, he froze up and failed to act. Having missed what turned out to be his only opportunity, the guy spent the rest of the night, or in some rare cases, even the rest of his life kicking himself for not stepping up.

  

If you have read my eBook, or any of the articles I have posted on my website, you will know that I believe that attraction in women is triggered far more by a guy with a self-confident, but funny smart-ass attitude than by some approval-seeking nice guy who thinks kissing up to a woman and showering her with compliments will somehow make her somehow “like” him enough to do him the huge favor of going out with him.

  

With that said, here is one example of what kind of minor disruptions or changes could occur that would create one of these “moments of convergence”, and what I would consider to be at least an effective( if maybe not perfect) pick-up line.

  

Maybe you are at a party or bar and some loud obnoxious jerk or drunk is causing a bit of a disturbance–Saunter up to some woman who attracts you and go to hand her your drink—You then say in a very manly fashion, as if you are going to take some sort of action—”HERE, HOLD MY DRINK”, then just stand there looking at her for a few moments. Then say to her with a serious tone of voice, ” Now, when you go over to that guy, just tell him to shut the f*** up and throw this drink in his face”. Stay in serious mode until she reacts, then you can break out a sly smile and continue the conversation from there.

  

Thinking of possible pick-up lines for certain scenarios can definitely prepare your mind for when your opportunities come along. But remember, no two situations are the same. So rather than just relying on a collection of memorized canned one-liners, when that ”moment of convergence” comes along fine-tune your approach to perfectly fit that particular situation. Do that and you will at least for that moment in time have discovered the PERFECT PICK-UP LINE .

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